There's "I" in Happiness

 1) Family: We are all born into a family. 

                    We all have the chance to create our own family.

2) Spirituality: We are free to explore the meaning of our own existence. 

                          We all have the freedom to choose how to do so.

3) Purpose: We are capable to find our own sense of purpose.   

                     We all have the capacity to do it in our own way.

4) Happiness: We are able to find happiness in life’s simple things. 

                        We all should be aware of that there is no more simplest thing 

                         than being alive.

5) Love: We are endowed with the capability for love. 

                We all should have the capability to grant and accept love willingly.

6) Connection: We are separate yet interconnected individuals. 

                          We all must understand the difference between them.

7) Food: We owe our bodies the nourishment they deserve. 

                We all can discern when we are doing it right or wrong.

8) Knowledge: We are design to absorbed and process knowledge. 

                          We all acquire wisdom when we are capable to explain it.

9) Individuality: We are born equal no matter the circumstances. 

                             We all have the freedom to explore our own individuality.

10) Success: We are presented with different challenges through our lives. 

                       We all can resign ourselves to any type of challenge. 

                        We all can adapt or overcome any and all types challenges.

"Tuesdays with Morrie" a book by Mitch Albom

A teacher's last lesson to his student 

about the ultimate "Tension of Opposites" 

between life and death.

Morris Schwartz was Mitch Albom sociology teacher in college during the early eighties. Morrie was a kind and loving man who loved dancing and loved to share his knowledge about what it meant to be a real human being.

Mitch developed a close connection to Morrie and delighted in exploring his points of view about society as it was perceived at the time. However, after Mitch graduated college, and lost contact with Morrie, he came upon an interview of his old college teacher on television. And discovered that he was suffering from Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis or ALS, a terminal disease.

After reunited again, Mitch started visiting Morrie every Tuesday into what became his final lesson about life, death, society and basically all the aspects of the human experience.

Morrie, until the very end, possessed a profound understanding on how society viewed the meaning of life and how people mistake purpose with the mundane aspects of such life. Yet, they ignore the simplest instances which help to define them as morally human. 

The philosophy and awareness that Morrie acquire during his last days on earth signified to Mitch a new level of moral consciousness which could be applied to our very own lives.

“Here’s what I mean by building your own little subculture […] I don’t mean you disregard every rule of your community. I don’t go around naked, for example. I don’t run through red lights. The little things, I can obey. But the big things—how we think, what we value—those you must choose yourself. You can’t let any one—or any society—determine those for you.” – Morris Schwartz 

Selling Gender: Gender-roles in Advertising

"The Language of Advertising", Charles A. O'Neill's essay, talks about how advertising language mirrors the fears, quirks, and aspirations of the society that creates it. One major issues that encompass all of the above is gender.

Masculinity or the perception of what it is to be a man is depicted from physical appearance to social behavior. Mass media fills people's minds with images of strong or rebellious men in order to promote different types of products and services. Modern advertising campaigns have adapted to incorporate a more open sense of femininity amongst their ads for men. However, they still maintain a strongly define boundary regarding masculinity without making them look effeminate.

How did they manage to do that with skinny jeans?
I don't know.

Femininity or the perception of what it is to be a woman doesn't scape advertising's equal subjectivity. Beauty and sensitivity are some of the major attributes which are utilize to sell products to women. The ingenuity of modern advertising incorporates independence and freedom of expression in their ads for women. Yet again, such ads are very careful not to include imagery that might be deemed unfeminine.

Madame President does not need makeup in order to do her job better that any man.  

In the battle to brake gender stereotypes the GLBT community advocates for freedom of gender expression. Drag Kings have populated the annals of history in America since WWII. Women had to work in factories and wearing dresses and makeup amongst other women under such conditions seemed like such a bother. However, mass media sometimes reluctantly allows women ads the lack of femininity but never over masculinization.

There is no better gentleman than a woman. And you can quote me.

As for Drag Queens, men have been dressing in what now is been perceived to be as feminine since...

There is a reason for what we all do every morning is still called to-dress-up. GLBT ads use Drag Queens until this day not to represent what it is to be a woman but to glamorize freedom of gender expression. Something mass media is absolutely terrified to accept.

If a man puts on a dress, he is a transvestite. 

If a gay man has way-to-much-fashion-sense for one gender, he is a Drag Queen.

Man, masculine, masculinization, feminization, femenine, woman are gender definitions. 

People's social behaviors perceive and project gender stereotypes.

Mass media incorporates gender-role stereotypes into their ads. 

    It all starts with one simple question.
Is it a boy or a girl?

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     <http://laeyeworks.typepad.com/lae/rupauls-drag-race/>. 

 Millenium Glub, Katana. "Dare To Be - Your Favorite MAC Poster/Ad." Makeuptalk. Huddler Fashion & Lifestyle, 17 Mar. 2011. Web. 29 Apr. 2013. 

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ALSO CHECK OUT:

 (LEGO Friends - LEGO & Gender Part 1) <http://youtu.be/CrmRxGLn0Bk>

(The LEGO Boys Club - Lego & Gender Part 2) <http://youtu.be/oe65EGkB9kA>

"THINNER" by Stephen King writing as Richard Bachman

Stephen King's novel "Thinner" was published by New American Library in1985 under the pen-
name Richard Bachman. According to his biography Stephen King was born on September 21, 
 1997 and is an American author of contemporary horror, suspense, science fiction and fantasy. 
King has published 50 novels, including seven under the pen-name Richard Bachman, and five 
non-fiction books. The novel "Thinner" is the story of overweight middle-age family man and 
lawyer William Halleck. Halleck 'having killed an old Gypsy woman with his car and let go un- 
punished' was then cursed by an old Gypsy man with a rotten nose by caressing his face with 

a finger and whispering the word "thinner" right after the trial. As the story progresses Halleck 

begins to notice the rapid weight loss and leaves his comfortable upper-class suburban  little 

town of Fairview Connecticut to search for the traveling Gypsies in order to make him remove 

the curse. Thus,enrolling in a most unparalleled quest filled with vengeance and repercussion.

'Justice hath no fury as a Gypsy scorned'

"Thinner" is most definitely a page turner with exiting plots and unraveling self-discovery. The 

old adage, "an eye for an eye makes the world go blind" takes a more macabre tone in a series 

of events which makes the main character re-evaluate the gain from vengeance and who real-

ly are the ones affected by it. Amongst one of my favorite quotes is "Sure, we need Gypsies. 

We always have. Because if you don't have someone to run out of town once in a while, how 

are you going to know you yourself belong there?" (284). Another one is "Some guys -a lot of 

guys- don't believe what they are seeing, especially if it gets in the way of what they eat or 

drink or think or believe. Me, I don't believe in God. But if I saw him, I would. I wouldn't go a-

round saying 'Jesus, that was a great special effect. The definition of an asshole is a guy who 

doesn't believe what he's seeing. And you can quote me" (220). I've review the summary of 

the movie from the same book and from what I gather the movie had to incorporate an extra 

plot in order to give meaning to the end. However, I feel that the book has a very cohesive 

main plot and a deeper message at the end, just the way it is. Personally I believe "Thinner"

 embodies the darker side of the human psyche and masterfully depicts the deeper meaning 

                             of revenge versus accountability.

Unearthly

Dreams
Want to meet
Foretell love’s whereabouts
Meeting by chance times over
Short circuit my thoughts
A miracle romance
Moonlight

Eternal
Mother hovers
Rotating in between two
Imagining, gravitating instantly unwavering
Protecting something so perfect
Boundless freedom
Humanity

Monolith
Bright as life
Emotion emulating emulsion
Ethereal essence of a wolf’s hart
Fake and fickle façade
Darkness like death 
Absence

1^st stanza source:  Sailor Moon’s theme song, “Moonlight Densetsu” (translation) 

2^nd stanza source: Lady Gaga’s music video, “Born This Way” (prologue)
3^rd stanza source: original (me)